Friday, August 20, 2010

How'd you find your true love?

This is my story of love. and i met him on an online mmo.





Ok so me and my ex husband had been on the rocks. He was controling and mean to me. Yet i stayed with him. I was depressed i felt hopeless but i couldn't leave him i had gotten to comfortable with the abuse and neglect.





I played some games online being a full time house wife and being left alone most of the time. I had made a few friends online and spoke with them often. One of my friends had an Ex... I had never spoke to him before and when we finally spoke man he didn't like me and i wasn't sure about him.





We talked sh!t to each other and finally one day after a huge fight with my ex husband the guy messaged me. He said '; why are you so qiute it's kinda freakin me out?'; I responded with '; I'm not in the mood for talking.'; And we left it at that. Before he went to bed however he had spoke with some of my friends and sent me his number saying if i ever needed to talk just to text or call.





After a few days i got better and recovered from the fight and my depression. I texted the guy as a joke just playing around. We started talking as friends. Finally i started thinking about him. Every moment of the day. He messaged me telling me he was thinking about me too. We started getting more deep into our convos we spoke daily, and finally ended up talking over the phone. He learned of my abuse and how unhappy i was. He was a great comfort and finally we made a plan to get me out of the abusive home i was living in. He sent me a bus ticket and i packed my bags and escaped in the night.





My bus ride was two days long but he couldn't wait for me to get there. He drove 4 hours to a stop two stops away from the one i was supposed to be going to. I knew he was coming and my bus arrived about 5 minutes early. I was so happy and by the time the bus stopped everyone on wanted to meet this amazing man. I waited outside of the bus depot and looked for him. Finally i saw him round the corner. He looked at me and i looked at him. He walked up to me pulled me into his arms and just like in the movies gave me the most perfect kiss upon my lips. He took me under his arm and walked me to his car and into my new life.





We've been together ever since and i'm proud to say we haven't fought once. He still the amazing smart butt that i fell in love with. He found me when i had forgotten who i was and when i was in the darkess place. He brought back my light and who i was before i lost my self.





Update


We've now been together 8 months and are still very happy. We still haven't fought or changed in or relationship we're happy and love each other very much.How'd you find your true love?
I was with the same guy on and off for about 2 years. He was that REALLY good looking guy, but was a complete jerk who was really full of himself.





I finally stopped caring about making him happy, so I told him I was joining the Army. I left 6 days later for Basic Training.





I am pretty sure he cheated on me, he never wrote me a letter, didn't answer when I called.... I wrote him a letter telling him it wouldn't work out. I still didn't hear from him.





After I graduated from Basic Training, I got two weeks off back at home for the holidays. He texted me and apologized and wanted me to come over Christmas morning. I went. We spent the next couple days together until the New Year '08. We decided to start over again and try to make it work, but the next day I had to go to Fort Lee, VA for my Advanced Training for 9 weeks. I hoped it would be better for us.





So I got there and he was really supportive for like 2 days. Then all of the sudden he wouldn't text me, answer my calls, nothing! I put up with it for about 2 weeks. Then I texted him one last time and told him that I needed a man that can support my career choices and care about me while I'm on the other side of the US. About 5 minutes later, he texts me and says, ';OMG I just found my phone! It was lost for two weeks!! Why are you dumping me?!';





Yeah, just what I thought. All of the sudden he cares, because I don't want to be with him anymore. So I told him, no, this is the end of it. I need to focus on me for a change. He was pretty mad.





So we finally started our in class training. I sat in the middle of the class, one seat away from the wall. Some really shy guy (that I didn't even notice in our small platoon) shuffles over to that seat by the wall and kinda huddles over there, scared to look up for anything. I shrugged and continued talking to the other people around me. Pretty soon I couldn't take it anymore. I had to know what this guy's deal was!





So I poked his arm and said, Hi! What's your name?? with a huge smile on my face. He threw his little nametag at me (that our teacher had us make so they knew our names). I picked it up and read, JOEL! (But I pronounced it Jole) and he looks up all mean and said IT'S JOEL! So I giggled, rolled my eyes and said SOR---RY. From that moment on I just could stop bothering him. He'd fall asleep in class and start snoring, so I pinched him on the soft skin underneath your arm to wake him up. It turned into a game and he started pinching me back. It hurt like hell. LoL. This would move into chow time too, the pinching, he started following me everywhere, and I thought it was so cute!





Eventually though, we started dating on the weekends, went to the movies, the mall, wherever. He kept telling me he wanted to kiss me and I'd say no. Then one day he asked me again, and I blushed and turned to walk away, he grabbed me by the wrist, twirled me around and landed me with a very passionate kiss. My knees felt weak. It was perfect. After that we couldn't keep our lips off each other. Soon graduaton time was coming. He kept telling me, Move to CO with me (where he got stationed), but I was going to Ft Lewis, WA so I couldn't. I kept asking him why, and he'd say, TO BE WITH ME. I thought it was cute, but it wouldn't work. So I went to WA, he went to CO. Saying goodbye at the airport was so hard. I had never felt so attached to someone. I made it to WA and all I could think about was him. We talked on the phone non-stop for two weeks and I couldn't take it anymore. I moved to CO. April 2nd. We got married. And I moved my unit here. Everything is perfect. We have a wonderful marriage and the true love that so many people say doesn't exist. I didn't believe it until I experienced it. It is true! =)





Sorry for such a long storyHow'd you find your true love?
I have not found my true love yet but I already know what I hope to find in that future special someone.
i found them while using a porn website
Jesus, I didn't read anything at all, But based on your question you cant. It finds you. Hope i helped somehow..
good just make sure u got a thick didldo and stimulator 4 yo putty
I still havent found mine :(
school, im just a sophmore.
sometime it happens ? i met my wife in a night club been married 25 yrs.and very happy.
myspace
Aww, thats a really cute story %26lt;3 I'm really really happy things worked out for you! =)





I didn't find my TRUE love yet, although I'm in love with someone but he has a girlfriend now.. and plus I'm too young for true love I'm 15 ;)


But I hope I find someone who loves me soon %26lt;3;;


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well when i found my true love i was dating her friend. we will use the names jenna as the one i was dating and courtney as the my true love.


well jenna went out of town and court and i had been talking a lot. when jenna was out of town court and i hung out a bit, went shopping, and talked almost constantly. when we hung out we both felt a spark. when jenna got back i confessed that i hung with her and i told jenna we needed to break up. a week later i was with courtney. Courtney and I have been together for 2 years and 3 months but are currently on a break and everyday it breaks my heart but we still hang out occasionally. i am waiting for the day she realizes I am her one and only. I realized it too long ago with her.
I don't know about ';true love';, but the man that I've become most attached to-- more than anyone else in my life before-- and I actually got off to a baddish start. I didn't even think twice about it turning into ';that'; kind of relationship. We became quite good friends eventually though and there was this one time he was hugging me in the dark and I sort of realized I'd never felt more amazing in my whole life and I wanted to be with him.





And then it turned out he'd liked me that way all along and... well, yeah. I'm very happy to hear about your wonderful relationship and hope it goes well for you. I'm still a teenager so I know I have a few ups and downs to go yet, but right now I'm very happy. :)
If what you're saying is in fact the truth and not some fabricated story, then bravo and congratulations!!!





Great things like this happen to us when we least expect it, don't they?





But, remember, your relationship is young. Disagreeing and arguing (fairly) is a very normal human thing to do, and actually very healthy for the relationship when conflicts come up, and they will. If everyone was perfectly agreeable and nice all the time, without any troubling or frustrating situations in life that occasionally bring out the worst in us, then we would be living in a euphoric paradise..... which doesn't exist in our world.





I really hope things work out well for you and that you get married and have many children and grand-children.





Cheers to your happiness!!!
So far that's a great start but sometimes crazy things happen if you're happy just there and keep on doing the good things also try to keep him happy so he won't have to show you the other side of him. All that matter in this world it's happiness, he might be your true love or not but try to make the vest out of it you know what you have now but don't what you will have tomorrow goo lucky.

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