Wednesday, August 18, 2010

I love my husband too much!!?

I love my husband too much, i am pregnant (7 months) and we are together almost all the times, we both work but we come home everyday and do almost everything together, he doesnt seem to mind, he has his off days, sort of moody but always has some love for me, our sex life has diminish and i believe is because of the pregnancy, it tends to be messy instead of enjoyable, he is very very excited to be having a baby, there is not a single detail he has not covered everything he has taken care of.





But there is something missing, there is no lust on his eyes anymore, he doesnt touch me or shows any desire for me, he is not cheating trust me,but i miss that side of him, the way he used to hug me so intense, i miss him and he doesnt understand this thing when i tell him, he says he is right there and he is not going anywhere.





I tried explaining is nothing to do with going somewhere it has to do with how he makes me feel sometimes, true, we have an awesome relationship but i feel there is no intimacy (not sexually i get that part, messy) no romance, no lust, no sparks, ive tried may things, from sex games, to lingerie, to candle light dinner, to soft music, to romantic movies, nothing seems to make him snap out of it!...i love him very much and i know he does too, im just wondering if there is a different level you fall under with your relationship after a while, how can i bring what we had back??? can this start turning into one of those boring marriages that end in divorce??? Please be mature on your answers..Thank you......I love my husband too much!!?
Wait until all those pregnancy hormones are gone and give it all another shot. Seems to me I went through a very similar thing when I was pregnant both times.





You will be fine, don't let it bug you.I love my husband too much!!?
There's no such thing as loving someone too much.





You're pregnant. Your husband isn't looking at you like a sex-pot. He's looking at you as the mother of his future child(ren). Yes, initmacy between couples changes with pregnancy and children.





Your marriage will only become boring and end in divorce if you let it.
Well, sorry honey, you are not his exciting love machine any more. Now you are this pregnant, baby carrying, hormone swinging, belly getting larger, WOMAN. This is what guys avoid while dating. You will need to give it time. You are not the same in his eyes anymore. After baby is born, %26amp; baby gets out of the newborn stage, your hormones will smooth out, things will get better. You need to accept this
Let him know how you feel. Tell him that you miss that old side of him! let him know that you don't like how his mannerisms towards you have changed, and if that doesn't work, see a marriage counselor. I am only 16, so I do not feel as though I am really in any position to be giving advice. I just hope this helps.
I think maybe because your are pregnant he may feel he doesn't have to be or he doesn't know how to be. I think you should give it time and wait till the baby comes. I think it will get better. I wouldn't worry about it yet. Good luck and I hope you figure it out :)
i am sure he has lush but you have to remember he has to be a lot more gentle with you he can't go off and break you like he use to so just relax and things will get back to normal
Maybe he doesn't like having sex right now because the baby's up there.





Things will get back to normal after the baby's born.
also dont forget to pray
You are 7 months prego. Give him 4 months after the baby. Things will be back to normal.
..........noone likes a clingy girl !

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