What do you do when your a fool in-love?

my ex husband and i have known each other for thirty years.he is 38 and so am i we have been on again and off again for 18yrs.as of now were off.he is married now but he left her for me 2yrs ago.and in that time i was diagnosed with breast cancer.while i was in chemo he was there but our finance was horrible so we lost our place.we moved seperatly with our familys and 2months ago he went back to his wife right when she was divorcing him and told my in-laws and myself that he could not bear to live with family anymore.but when i see him hes all over me.im still in radiation and i have had my surgery.so i feal just fine but im allways so depressed and sad about him.i will be in my new place soon.and i know that he will try to come back.but im scared if i take him back what if we go broke again what will he do.how do you fall out of love?What do you do when your a fool in-love?
Oh for pete's sake you have gone through enough. did you also know that women dealing with infidelity and such emotional stress in a marriage are more apt to getting diagnosed with breast cancer? Stress causes many cancers as a matter of fact. You don't need this man back in your life. You need to live for YOURSELF for once--and see how much healing from the inside and out will take place once you do. Let him go with his wife and don't take him back. I don't care if your mother's were in the same hospital giving birth at the same time and you knew each other for your whole 38 years of life. Sometimes you have to throw out the past and step boldly into the future. Don't cling to what makes you comfortable or safe. Sometimes finding true love is a risk that you have to take.What do you do when your a fool in-love?
I really wish you well through all of this. You need as much support as you can get.

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You can't tell your heart what to do, it does what it wants. That is why you should ask the advice of others and follow it.





You fall out of love by finding another one to love. I suggest you open your heart to that possiblity and move on. Good luck to you.
some days i feel like i am a fool in love, when i am with her i love this woman with all my heart,





but back to you,





??????
he is wishy washy, and isnt a real man to back his woman, you should not let him back into your life, be who you are without him, you have been through this tough time alone, and he just sits on the fence waiting till you can screw him again,





not a pleasant place to be, it is a hard thing but tell him you are through,





good luck with your cancer,
sometimes you continue loving but circumstances can ruin things....i wouldnt take him back...
Look inside your soul for the answer, what is the worst thing that could be done is to be negative. Give your heart to him and dont worry about going broke
Enjoy the good times.