How many of you.....?

how many of you are truly in love with your husband/wife?after a few years, for some even a few months, doesn't the ';in love'; feeling go away? yes perhaps its replaced with other feelings but i dont think you can stay in love for long.has this happened to you? i dont feel in love with my husband anymore.what can you do to fall in love again?How many of you.....?
I have been married for 14 years, and I can honestly say that I am deeply in love with my husband to this day. There have been times when things were rough, but it gives you a chance to fall madly in love again. People become stuck in routine and take the relationship for granted. Married people just need to take the time to get reacquainted sometimes. I can highly recommend a romantic night or two alone somewhere, especially one with a whirlpool bath for two. You really cannot forget to stop sort of dating each other. Away from home, no kids, television etc. You remember quickly how much you love them, even if you go away from them for a week or two you will realize how terribly you miss everything about them.How many of you.....?
I think you are correct in that the feeling seems like it goes away, but just watch what happens when a husband or wife gets into a car accident %26amp; ends up in the hospital. That's when the love re-appears - when something horrible happens. I don't think the love is actually replaced by other feelings, but are other feelings of love - like caring, security, happiness %26amp; contentment, etc...





What can you do to fall in love again? Remind yourself what it was that attracted you to him or her in the first place. Do something different together, go on a cruise or a trip somewhere. Sometimes, all it takes is to get away from the humdrum of everyday life. Then the couple can relax and become the husband %26amp; wife that they used to be.
I am truly in love with my husband. It's hard now as he works out of state 2 wks. at a time so I only see him 2-4 days a month.We dated for 4 yrs. He is all I ever wanted in a man. No, he's not perfect and nor am I. Our ';in love'; feeling is like a job. Both of you have to work on yourselves, each other and sacrifice some things in your lives to make it work. Try the ';dating'; again. Go out. If your lacking money, you can do other things. Cook together naked, hot oil massages, bubble bath, chase each other around the house naked;the list goes on. You need to bring the passion back. About falling in love again, you are probably still in love but your life may becoming routine. That's why I made some fun things to add to the both of you . Take some time to think about why you asked this,also. How can you fall out of love with someone? Were you in love for real or thought you were? Really think about it. Best wishes to you.
I am truly in love with my husband of 16 years. This is my second marriage, my first lasted 6 years and it was a mess. But I have to say I am glad, because now I have a soul mate and he is my best friend. I am still crazy over him, it just keeps getting better. Marriage is not easy, you have to work at it everyday. You have to stay on the same page, once you go in different directions then you will have issues. To keep the spark going, you need to spend time together, tell each other what your needs are and follow thru with it. Listen to each other, and help get thru the tough times. Support his decisions no matter how crazy they are..Mine is in the Army and it can be hard.. he is in Iraq right now and I miss him so much..But I support him on defending our country and keeping us all safe..even thou I want him here with me. keep on working on the relationship and love each other the grass may not be greener on the other side.
I love my man as deeply, wildly and unconditionally now after almost four years as I did at the start.





';Love does not just sit there, like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.'; ~ Ursula K. LeGuin





You have to work at love to keep the passionate ';in love'; feeling alive.
Love never fades.


The lust in a relationship may dwindle but true love which consist of many things... such as respect, Honesty, Friendship, to name a few, never fades.


You need to spice things up again and get the lust back into your life.
Paul L. is a very intelligent man. I believe that he is exactly correct.
I have the same problem so I cant help you.