You tell him there's someone else and you're leaving him.How do you tell your husband you love him but your not in love with him any more, and there is someone else?
That is really bogus, you need to think about your kids, not about yourself.
Break it off with your husband. It's not fair to him or yourself. Everyone has a right to be happy. Don't become an adulterer or live a lie. It will hurt a lot but would be lot worse if he caught you cheating.
Think of all the people who will get hurt if you get divorced first. If you think you can handle all those pains and just go ahead!
My personal experience: one of my cousin get really depressed when his parents got divorced (and never re-married because his father realized he didn't love another woman THAT much and my aunt was hurt too much that she didn't give him a chance to go back). And one more thing, the first year of love is like honeymoon! Everything will work out for the first year - I think you should give your husband another year or two... It's been 15 years you two are together anyway.
Just be honest. You're fickle, you can't be trusted and you're a slutty *****. Whatever happened to wedding vows? Your family isn't something to be discarded whenever you feel like it, just for your own gratification.
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