Is it wrong to fall in love and marry your 1/2 sisters x husband?

My 1/2 sister had been cheating on her x husband for years. She finally decided to divorce him and move in with one of her boyfriends. I had always thought of him as a brother n law but after they split we grew to know each other and fell in love. I asked her if she was really done with him and she said yes he needed someone who could love him for him. I thought, I can do that.... Now two years have passed and he and I are in a deep committed relationship and my family frowns on it. We really love each other and want to get married some day. Is it wrong? How do I deal with my family? Funny thing is my 1/2 sister is more ok with it than anyone. Another twist my nieces...(one is his and one is from a previous relationship of my 1/2 sisters) they will be my step children/nieces and my children's step siblings/cousins. I know a lot of families have similar issues with divorce and mixed family rates. Just don't know how to shake the Jerry Springer feeling of it all lolIs it wrong to fall in love and marry your 1/2 sisters x husband?
If you love him and he loves you that's whats important. All the better that you have your half sister's well wishes. The family may take time to get them to understand, but don't back down from what you want, if you want it badly enough.


Good luck :-)Is it wrong to fall in love and marry your 1/2 sisters x husband?
He is not your blood relative. Marry him, if you are sure he is the right person for you.
It is too close to the consanguinal and affinal bloodlines and is incestuous. No, I'd definitely get some therapy for that one.
Hey, love is love.....But, a family reunion is NOT the place to hook up.
LOL...some people are so funny!
If it makes you happy then go for it. Just don't invite him to family gathering for a while. LOL!
It will always have a Jerry Springer feeling to it. Why don't you go out and find someone on your own and not take your sister's sloppy seconds?! I really feel bad for the children involved. I would be embarrassed and frown upon you guys too if I was part of your family.
well thats wrong 2 do 2 your own sis but if u love him, there's nothing u can do
Its totally okay,if your hals sis's fine with it so should u b,ur family will come around love is love
I guess thats how you do things in Arkansas.
Wow- That's a very complicated issue. You should talk to your family about it. Have him explain the situation to the children before you get married. If your 1/2 sister is OK with it, then I guess its not that bad.
technically nope. morally yup
I think you've crossed the line. I don't understand how you can look at your BIL and think it's okay to date him. What happens when you two split up? Does he move on to the next sister? Cousin? Mother?
Yes! It's WRONG!
Yes, this is a Jerry Springer episode. Find someone else to love on.
It depends on what you really want. Do you want a lasting relationship? Do you think that it's possible to have a lasting relationlship with this person? Or, do you think that the family pressure would get to you later on?





Love is certainly a good ingredient in a lasting relationship, but it is not all the ingredients.





I suggest that you take a break from the relationship, and have an inventory of what is really important to you.





Keep in mind that your family will always be your family (they will be there for you - better or worst). There are a lot of guys out there just like your sister's ex (some even better) that you could potentially be with, actually, there's millions of them. Are you sure you want to have that family pressure hanging over your shoulder the rest of your life? - The answer is really up to you.
It is wrong! You don't date your sisters ex. Period. You can't justify it by saying it was her fault for cheating or she is only your half sister. It is still wrong. There a some lines you just don't cross!
Yes It is very Jerry Springer and wrong. How big is the town your in again? You couldn't find anyone else other then your ex-brother in law? If your really goning to go through with this you should move to someplace where no one knows who you are cause your family will never be O.K. with it.
Sorry I did not read beyond the question.


Yes from the North
That doesn't sound very wrong. You should do what you want to.
it will cause a lot of problems
Well, the kids are already involved in it so I wouldn't change anything. You cant help it now. Dont worry about family you dont sleep with them at night. Have a great life and dont think about Jerry Springer.......