How do you see your spouse?

the other day i asked my parents and my hubby's parents the following question, i was surprised as how each of them answered. i asked


'when you look at your husband/wife who do you see? do you still see the pretty little girl/handsome boy you married or do you see them as they actually are?


my mum said she still sees the really cute boy she fell in love with.


my mum-in-law says she sees him as he is. my dad said he sees the old woman mum has become while my dad-in-law says to him his wife is and always will be that shy little miss he fell in love with.


so how do you see your spouse? and if you don't mind telling me how long you've been married and your ages i would appreciate it.


their answers just got me to wondering just how we each perceive our mates - thank you in advance and have a really great day!How do you see your spouse?
I see the beautiful, innocent, Loving person that he is within. We have been married 17 years, %26amp; never have I in any of that time been in doubt of how he felt for me. He is my rock %26amp; a grounding force for me. We are total opposites on how we meet the world %26amp; handle just about everything. It seems what I am not that is his strength %26amp; what he is not is mine. We compliment each other in so many ways. There have been clashes thru the years, but they have only added to us rather than taken anything from us. This is a second marriage for both us, %26amp; I had actually given up on dating %26amp; was a single parent for 13 years when he walked into my life. So many people have added to me %26amp; helped to shape who I am today %26amp; sometimes I wonder if he knows just how much he has helped me find my wings! I am the luckiest woman in the world! Thru all those lonely years all I wanted was someone who would love me, seems I got my prayer answered!


Thank You for this question, I think I am going to go give him a big hug right now. Sometimes we all just need to count our blessings %26amp; He is one of mine!


Blessings!How do you see your spouse?
I'm 62 and my husband is 67 and we've been married 21 years (second marriages). Under normal circumstances I still see my husband as he looked when we first met. Than sometimes, like when we're in separate parts of a store) I'll see him as he looks now and almost not recognize him. The same thing has happened with my children because I still see them as little girls. I think the shock at seeing them as they really are is wondering how did this happen? Where did the time go and how much do I have left?
The years have been hard on my husband - a 30% disability from Desert Storm that causes daily pain along with poor health have, I am sure, aged him. But I still see the rock jawed, tanned, big shouldered man I married 24 years ago. To this day all I have to do is think about him and I smile.





Thanks for the question - I'm sitting here grinning like an idiot.
My poor husband. He works so hard. During the days at one business and nights/weekends at the other. Despite his hard work, the failing economy is killing us.





Therefore, he's been drinking too much and it worries me more than the thought of being homeless.





I think he's a great husband, a great father and the most spectacular grandfather two little children could ask for.
my wife use to be the greatest thing that ever happen to me.she was very smart,good looking and caring.we have been married 14 years,well now she lets her 34 y/o son run her life and things are not like they use to be.she's not as smart as she use to be,but i put up with it because i love her.
My husband and I were married for 26 years and up until the day he died, I could see the gray, but what stood out most for me was the youthful twinkle in his eye and his engaging smile, as handsome as he was the day we were married.
I'm 40 and don't have a husband, but I see the dear, innocent little boy or girl in those I care for, romantically or not, alongside the person they are in this minute and the wise old man or woman I imagine them becoming.
I married for the first/only time at age 37. We have been together 19 years. I see my husband as the wonderful man I chose to spend the rest of my life with. We have both physically aged a bit but are more in love than ever. Awwwwwwwwwwwww...I waited a long time to pick the right one.
I've never been married but one day in 1998 dad was looking at mom's passport which was issued in 1952 and said, ';Look at your mother. She hasn't aged a day! She looks exactly the same!'; Mom is still beautiful but, of course, she has aged. But not to dad.
When my girlfriend, she was everything a man could wish for in my eyes.That was over 40yrs ago, and since then, not one single thing has changed my young friend.
All I can do now is have a glimpse of what she used to be and only see what she is now, as I am, old and wrinkly.
I see her as she is, and fortunately, the more she matures and blossoms - the prettier the flower.
twenty years later, he's much the same as he was when I met him... slender, strong, cutie.... just a few more gray hairs in the beard.... still has those laughing blue eyes and bowed legs that were so cute, too!....
i see her as exactly the day we met! because that was only 5 years ago! (both l8 40's.)sometimes,she still wears the same sweater as the day we met-so,not to difficult to remember that day!
Well, sometimes I see the boy, but every once in a while I see an old man creepin in鈥h no, I guess that鈥檚 just my moods ruling my eyes...
I saw him as he was when I am met him when he was eighteen.It was still amazing until 2 years ago for 54 glorious years. I was so lucky.
I see her in my dreams as the beautiful woman I fell in love with. She died about 30 years ago, 4 months after we married.
Once I lift his face up off his neck he looks the same as the day we met. :-)
Please stop a moment and consider this


think about this and see if true of your own experiences





The magnificent things about ';the mind's eye'; -


--- the first time you see an individual ---


each time you think of the person


that is the image you get in your mind.





I first saw my sweet lady walking through some glass doors coming into an office building------she was nineteen ------- today she is seventy six and when i look at her now i still see her as nineteen.





June 12, 2009 we shall have been married fifty years---


and i thank Our Lords for each nanosecond of happiness with her.
I saw him for years, as the person I had fallen in love with, funny, kind, caring, a good friend, my best friend, fascinating to just sit on the beach and talk to, watch the sunset, someone I had a lot of common interests with, and a great lover, ageless, always made me smile.





Unfortunately I am not even sure that person even existed or if it was just a con.





When he changed it was very hard at first to see realityand not the memory. To see him for what he had become, and that the things he did were unforgivable, like the cheating, the verbal abuse, the lying, the drinking, and not still see him as the person I had believed he was. And wanted him to be.





I have had to force myself to face up to the fact that, if the person I fell in love with even existed, who my heart always wanted to forgive, doesnt anymore.





He is long dead and gone, and the selfish jerk has either revealed his true colours or taken over his body. Its sad because part of me will always see him, from a distance, which is the safest place to be, as the great guy I gave my heart to.
my mum always said she married the cutest boy ever and to the day she died she would say whenever she came out of the shops and saw dad sitting on the tailgate of their truck with the dog waiting for her - her heart would flutter an extra beat or two - because right then at that very moment it was like she went back in time and there was the cutest boy happy to sit with the dog and share a burger while she did the shopping. she would get this far away look in her eyes for a moment or two and then shake it off and laugh at herself - but y'know i believe her - he always was the cutest boy ever in her eyes.


[they were married 40 years and in their late 50's when she passed.]
what an interesting q





we have been together over 8 years, im 31, hes 26


(yeah im a cradle snatcher wanna make soemthign of it haha ;-D )


i still see the same gorgeous looking guy i knew he was gonna be


the same odd funny, and big liped hottie


he still sees the same small, cute, odd girl , with gorgeous dark hair and small hands





its funny, beause we have both changed in many ways looks wise, and yet, still look so similar


so we see the same things, but just maturer, better, older etc





have a great day yourself too


;-)

I'm chubby, but he's chubbier. Are you in a relationship with a chubby person? How's your love life?

***FIRST, please NOOOO rude comments, you will be reported!***





I perfer chubby guys, being chubby myself.


A guy I dated was about my size and we had no problems in the love department. We broke up then started seeing each other a few yrs later. Depression had packed the pounds on him (atleast 50, maybe 75), but we still had no problems.





I recently met a WONDERFUL guy online. I wasn't looking for love, it just happened. I'm still chubby, but he's **VERY** chubby. He's so cute with his big tummy, like he he's carrying full-term twins or something!





At the end of our 1st date we hugged goodbye, but his tummy kinda got in the way. I didn't wanna hurt his feelings, so we just held each other, instead of an actual ';throw your arms around someone'; kinda hug.





It's a bit premature to be thinking about it. But how would sex be for us? He's the biggest guy I've been out with, but I am falling for him. He hints that he feels the same way about me.





There's also a bit of a height difference. I'm 5'2 and he's 5'11. My head was on his chest and our tummies were against each others.





I have a friend that's the same size as me, but her husband is obese. He's considering gastric bypass surgery. Alot of the people in his family have had or will get it. Eventhough they are bigger people they have a VERY healthy and active sex life...





Could me and my new guy also?I'm chubby, but he's chubbier. Are you in a relationship with a chubby person? How's your love life?
If you love someone you will make anything work. You will learn to work around the big belly and all that, and figure out what works for you. Height or weight shouldn't be a big issue, lots of couples have significant height and weight differences. My sister is 4' 9'; and really tiny and her husband is 6' 5'; and is pretty overweight. It may look a little funny...but they are very happy. I'm sure it took practice to get things right, but now it is probably just routine.





Don't worry about it, you will find ways to make each other feel good, even if it takes some getting used to.I'm chubby, but he's chubbier. Are you in a relationship with a chubby person? How's your love life?
hmm...


possibly.
why dont try? then you will know.
it's kinda tough. my blubba gets in the way. alot.

How can I be in love with two men?

First of all this is not a typical situation. I love my husband and have stuck by him through everything and I believe once you marry someone they are your life through good times and bad. My husband has instigated some of the situations leading up to this. I am a confident person and happy with myself. At times I know I deserve better than what my husband puts into our relationship. I have always thought that the good times out weighed the bad. The fact is my husband would like to see me in bed with someone else and he would like for me to allow him the same. I find that morally wrong and degrading.He constantly trys to show off my body to his friends saying when they admire me it makes him feel that much more proud that I am his wife. I have fallen in love with our mutual friend of 7 yrs. Nothing is hidden from my husband, he openly knows how our friend feels about me and promotes the flirting that happens between the two of us. How could I believe I wouldn't fall for him?How can I be in love with two men?
You're not.How can I be in love with two men?
Dreemyr99,





I had and experienced I would like to share with you seems to me we have the same thing. I have been marriage 6 yrs now to my husband whose aged is older than me by 16. I am 25 now, slim body built, still very attractive personality and our married life with my husband is very wonderful. We both sexually active, and socially acquinted with some of our friends. I said it because we loved each other, we understand each others need, we are very open to our sex life, we adopted what we thought beneficial to our relationship as husband and wife and have responsible parents to our kids, We are not conservative to view as others鈥?couples did. We regularly dating as like we were doing before we got married before, had planned sex dates every three months outside the city leaving our kids at home to our baby setter and our mother for weekend. While doing our fun outside our home, we have relaxed and refresh our selves from the stresses we have got in our workload. I admitted that the relationship of husband and wife as goes on, the magic of sex is slowly fading that needs something we can not find in our bed at home to regain what was lost. Recently, I resigned from job and focus my self attending our homes to see our kids are properly taking care of because we believe their futures are to stake. That鈥檚 how we are fortunate having each other who cares for our strong relationship as year goes on.


What we have in common with my husband, we are often to discuss things affecting our relationship if things going wrong, our work and even our family %26amp; financially matters. Here, we don鈥檛 see any problem affecting our married because we believe an often communication will patch-up any problem when in trouble If both of you have highly respect each other.


We had tried whatever experiments the couples in minds to enhance our sexual activity and even having fantasies. It was him who persuaded me to fantasize as I felt guilt in the start to do his suggestion I was never been with other man in bed with me since my life but I had used to fantasize later when needed. In our 6 years marriage, I had never been closed to male friends as I respect too much my husband to get jealous and look me down. He brought me to some night parties with his friends, and sometimes we ended up at home for fun. He is proud of me to dress-up and show some of my bare body parts so his male friends can noticed me my natural beauty and sexiness. He also likes me to flirt to his male friends and initiates how I would have been danced with any one got an interested of me during parties.





Three days after my 25 birthday a year ago, I was surprised for his gift. He had arranged a sex date to me with his male closed sport buddy in his early 30鈥檚. In the start, I refused to accept because I was afraid it might be a trapped. But because of his persuations and promises to still love me aftermath, continuous respect to our married relationship and most to preserve our family, I agreed and asked him what compromises I will give in return? He requested me only to allow him watching me having sex with his male friend. But I told him I did not have the feeling to be comfortable being watched, and his male friend refused also. He later abandoned his idea but I would tell him of all details what had happened and then that's the time he allowed me and his male friend left spent the one night full of sex in the resort hotel about 45 minutes ride from our home. Believed me for my 6 years of married I was never being screwed for many times but the guy with me had strong an extra energy than my husband he had me full of fun and excitements I really can not imagined how I fully satisfied being making love to a guy even my husband in my life. When I was home and I told my husband all the details what had had happened to me and his guy, he got aroused instantly and fondly kissing me, hugs me and he make love to me again and again and again.


Until now our married is still stronger after that, we still loved each other, we respect each other. We lived together happily as like nothing was happened. But the gift my husband gave I really treasured and that guy was already immigrated to work in another country after three months of our date.





This happened to me I hope only give you an insight but I honestly ask you if your husband has total control of his jealous feeling and still accept you whole heartily once it happened what he is expecting you?
Do you really think you are in love with two men? It sounds to me like you may have fallen out of love with your husband a long time ago.
for one thing,your husband should be proud of you! you have the guts to ask other people about your private life. on the other hand,if he's trying to push you into an open relationship, it means that there is already a third wheel in your marriage and he's trying to find a way to justify it. explain to him your concerns about this and how you feel that marriage is a sacred bond between you and no one else. just come out and ask him that if he's so proud of you being his wife,why is he trying to hand you out to all these other people! and personally i think you have fallen for this other guy because he is offering you all that your husband is not right now.you don't really love him, you love the idea of being loved.i hope everything works out for you.
u know better wats right and wrong... serving 2 masters at the same time is a big problem... y should he (ur husband) of all people, instigate of u having or flirting wid anyone? sounds weird as if he's selling u2 the highest bidder? i think somethings worng wid ur relationship.. u better talk n sort things out... is this what u want in a long and lasting relationship as husband n wife? 4 the both of u to be open to flirting with anyone??? are u amendable to this open relationship? if not, better sit down with him and discuss this as thorough as possible... don't want to have failed marriages... think about ur kids (do u have any?) about wat others wud say? and also the consequences...
well fromw hat i have read its very sad and i feel for you. but i guess you could hurt alot of people but you are the one that has to live in this world. can you and this fellow make it i am not sure this hubby of yours is very honest maybe he feels like he owns you like furniture and therefore that is n't good yes, he will fight for you and stuff but hes not really caring like heshould be and trading you off like that. is the other guy going to do this? well you need alot ofcommunication and then take yourself to a better level then this good luck

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What do you do if your mother didn't get your husband anything?

A few weeks ago I went shopping with my mother and she bought a few things to give to my husband for christmas. Well we had a bit of a falling out a week ago so we haven't been talking. Well my brother came over and brought the kids gifts and gifts for me (even though we had a falling out) but the gifts my mother got for my husband she gave to someone else! I got a lot of things from her and so did our kids but my husband didn't get anything, I feel so horrible, I want to just call and tell her off! What do I do and how do I make my husband feel better and let him know I still love him and I'm sorry my mom is such a rude person?!








A little info on my mother: She use to beat me as a child but when I became an adult she told me sorry and cried with me and I forgave her. She's always had a crazy problem (she yells A LOT) and once my husband told her if she cannot control her yelling in front of our children she can no longer come around them (they would cry and run away from her when she would yell). She apologized and we told her she can come around again. My dad is always telling me she has major problems that's why he left her so long ago. My husband did nothing wrong to her so I don't know why she's like this! Just some advice would be good!What do you do if your mother didn't get your husband anything?
First of all...I'm sorry to hear about such a sad situation at Christmas. Ok that being said, first tell your husband how bad you feel (hopefully he understands that this is not your fault.) I would also consider telling your mom that you appreciate the gifts you and your children received from her, however, it really hurt your feelings that she decided to exclude your husband. Also, you said your mom has problems, it sounds like it may be time for her to look into getting some help. You may want to gently broch this topic with her as well. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes, and it's good that she says she's sorry...but you can only repeat a behavior so many times and say sorry for it repeatedly before people begin to wonder if you are truly sorry. Either she isn't sorry or she needs help to control herself. I truly hope things get better for you, hang in there.What do you do if your mother didn't get your husband anything?
keep loveing on him and let your mom go with love.
Have a talk with your mother. Confront her with a calm attitude.


Take it slow and tell her how you feel. Communication really works.





If not, take her to Dr.Phil. See a family counselor.





If your mother could apologize to your husband, that will release all the tension. If your husband could apologize to your mother, also, that would make their relationship blossom.





Hope this helps. Do not yell at your mother, it will make matters worse!





GOOD LUCK!
Well, it's clear your mother has major problems and that's why she acts this way. So, you and your husband have to take it in stride and don't get upset about it. Your husband is right in protecting the kids from her yelling. I hope you are doing the same thing. Develop a sense of humor too.


Basically, continue to let her visit when she behaves, but not if she is abusive. Forget about your husband's presents. Don't worry about it. Don't worry about it if she doesn't give gifts to you either. Or even the kids for that matter.


Just take what she has to offer that is good, and protect yourselves from the bad. Don't think about how she ';should'; be, because you have no power to change her.


Always be polite to her if at all possible.


This way, you can have the benefit of the best relationship with her that you can. Don't expect her to give more than she can or will. In fact, don't ';expect'; anything. Then everything good she does will be a pleasure for you, and you will never be disappointed.


I'm wondering why you think your mother's bad behavior would make your husband think you don't love him. If there is any reason for him to think that, you ought to reassure right now! Let him know you appreciate his protecting the kids. Tonight! While the kids are asleep. Go for it.

What would their names be? Baby name game!?

1. You’re sixteen and become pregnant. You’re so freaked out. You know you can’t keep the baby, but you don’t want to have an abortion. Luckily, you find an very nice adoptive couple who are supportive through the whole pregnancy. They also allow you to name the baby. It’s a girl, and you name her a variation of your name, so you’ll always be with her. (your real actual name). What do you name her?





2. Ten years later, you’re graduating medical school and engaged to the love of your life, ________.





3. A year after you get married, you find out you’re pregnant. It’s a boy, and you name him a name with the initials T.P. What do you name him?





4. When little T is one and a half you and your husband decide you want a little playmate for him. You become pregnant quickly, with another boy. You name him after your dad and your husbands dad (they can be variants of the name.. same meaning, etc). What do you name him?





5. Your two boys are growing! Little T is starting kindergarten and your three year old is enjoying preschool. You decide you want one more child to complete the family, and hope for a girl. It turns out to be a boy, and you name him a very popular name, but give him a less common nickname. What is his name?





6. Your sons are seven, five, and two now, and you love them to death, but you are secretly praying for a little girl that you can play dolls with and braid ribbons into her hair. Then the news comes! You’re pregnant! You pray and pray it’s a girl, and guess, what it is! But not just one girl, you’ve got three little daughters! Oh my goodness! You’re overwhelmed, but also overjoyed. They’re born two and a half months early and are in the NICU for a long time, but luckily they’re healthy as horses. You give them names that mean ‘blessing’ or something of the sort to show how happy you are they are okay. And make sure their names aren’t matchy. What are their names?





7. You’re happy with your big family. Your sons are twelve, ten, and seven, and your little triplets are starting kindergarten when you get the shock of your life! You’re pregnant again! And with twins (multiples run in your family, it seems). One boy and one girl. Their initials are C.J. and J.C. What are their names?





8. You’re enjoying your eight kids (ages fourteen, twelve, nine, seven, and two) with the reassurance that you can’t have any more ☺, when your husband gets some awful news. His sister-in-law has just died of cancer. (His brother died five years ago.) They live in _______, very far away, and you hardly ever see them, but you find out that since his sister-in-law has no family, you and your husband are now the legal guardians of their three kids, ages eight, six, and five. They are two boys and one girl, and their names are all very trendy, popular names. What are their names?





9. Your oldest son is seventeen, and headed to ________University to study _______. Your two older sons are fifteen and twelve, your brother-in-law’s kids (who’ve settled in happily) are eleven, nine, and eight, your triplets are ten, and your twins are five. Life is really going great. And one day you get an email from your oldest daughter, now twenty eight, who found you through Facebook. She want’s to meet you, and you agree with joyous tears in your eyes. The next week, you meet and you fall in love with the daughter you never knew. She is now married and has two kids, a two year old daughter and a six month old son. She tells you their names and you adore them – they are two of your favorite names. You feel so connected to her! And you fall in love with your grandchildren at first sight. What are their names?





So a recap.. what are the names of the ten kids? (and your first daughter, and her kids)What would their names be? Baby name game!?
1. Aubrianna Lorraine


2. Jake


3. Travis Parker


4. Tony Paul


5. Nathan Trent, Nate


6. Rain Taylor, Grace Nicole, Keiko Victoria


7. Carmen Jarrica, Joel Christopher


8. New York. Kylie Danielle, Braden James , Jace Curtis


9. Indiana, idk lol. Audrina Camille, Trevor Cole








Aubrianna Lorraine, Travis Parker, Tony Paul, Nathan Trent, Rain Taylor, Grace Nicole, Keiko Victoria, Carmen Jarrica, Joel Christopher, Kylie Danielle, Braden James, Jace Curtis, Audrina Camille, Trevor ColeWhat would their names be? Baby name game!?
Ashtyn Eloise


Taylor Lautner


Tristan Park


Taylor Edward


Caden(Cade) Noah


Hadley Lexia


Makaiya Grace


Shiloh Hope


Cassidy Jade


Jonah Christopher


Hawaii


Dakota(Kota) Lynne, Maisie Annabelle, Finn Micah


Harvard, law


Elijah Fin and Ainsley Faith





Ashtyn with Elijah and Ainsley, Tristan, Taylor, Cade, Hadley, Makaiya, Shiloh, Cassidy, Jonah, Kota, Maisie, Finn
1) Eva Grace


2) Nathan Casanova


3) Tyler Peter.


4) Jaden Thomas


5) Aiden James, call him Mes.


6) Annabelle, Isadora, Dolly..


7) Cora Jasmine, Jamie Charles.
1. My name is Deina (DEE-nah) Ailise (ay-LEES)


Baby girl: Dana Alexis


2. Ryan Johnson. (made up, not real person!)


3. Tyler Parker


4. my dad’s name: David


Ryan’s dad’s name: Keith


Baby boy: Keith David


5. Brandyn James; nickname B


Yes, just the letter B :)


6. Mackenna Jayde, Grace Danielle, Raina Hope


7. boy: Christopher Jordan %26amp; Jaelyn Camilla


8. They live in California, we live in Connecticut


Jacob Asher


Aidan Thomas


Madison Leigh


9. Clark University to study Psychology


Amber Dolores, Austin Tanner





ALL my kids: Dana Alexis, Tyler Parker, Keith David, Brandyn James, Mackenna Jayde, Grace Danielle, Raina Hope, Christopher Jordan %26amp; Jaelyn Camilla


nephews %26amp; niece: Jacob Asher, Aidan Thomas, Madison Leigh





grandkids: Amber Dolores, Austin Tanner





:)
1. my name is ashton, my daughters name is ashlyn-jade(AJ)





2. Kyler matthew Davis


3. Teagen paul davis (teag)





4. my fathers name james, his father jack, babies name jaxcksen james


5. Michael kain Davis , NN chael(kale)


6. Azariah(helped by God) Venice (blessed) seeleigh(helped, blessing)


(zari,veni,cc)


7. Cadencee jayde, Jameson charles


8. they live in england, names B Aiden Tyler, G Leah Jane, B Liam Ryan


10. Harvard is whee my son goes to study, and my grandchildrens names are Emmersyn victoria, Fynn Danial


9. So a recap.. what are the names of the ten kids? (and your first daughter, and her kids) Teag,jack,chael,zari,veni,cc,jameson,cad… 1st daughter ashlyn-jade, grand babies, emmy,fynn
Britain Leah


Camron Ryan


Tyler Preston


Jeffrey William


Alexander Daniel (Zander)


Johanna Grace, Natania Hope, Mattea Charity


Carter Julie %26amp; Jude Carson


Tennesse; Jonathan Kenneth, Colton James, %26amp; Brooklyn Alyssa


Briar State to study emergency medicine


Bridget Jordan %26amp; Bradley Eric


Kids: Britain, Tyler, Jeffrey, Alex, Joey, Natalie, Mattie, Carter, Jude, Johnny, Colton, Brooke, Bridget %26amp; Bradley
1. Madelyn Mae


2. Tyler


3. Tyler Presley


4. Daniel Michael


5. Maximilian Patrick (but we'll call him Mr. Money bags)


6. Isabella Joy, Phoebe Hope, and Lola Grace


7. Cooper Jerome and Jamie Collette


8. They lived in Montana (we live in NY) their names are Alexander, Samuel, and Baylee


9. He's going to PSU on a lacrosse scholarship. He'll be studying sports medicine.


My grandkids are Emma Grace and Jackson Trevor





Maddie, Tyler, Danny, Max, Izzy, Phoebe, Lola, Cooper, Jamie, Alex, Sam, Baylee, Emma, and Jack
1. Katie


2. Tyron


3. Tyron Patrick


4. Kenneth Jay


5. Tyler [nickname= ty ty--he will hate me for sure--lol]


6. Olivia-Kate, Sintele Jordan %26amp; Katie Marie


7. Curt James and Chloe Jessica


I'm exhausted at this point and checking into a baby-making rehab center..:)





8. Jamaica... Jason, Brandon %26amp; Emily


9. UA to become a Vet.. Olivia- Kate and Tyson





Tyron Patrick, Tyler, Katie, Olivia Kate, Sintele Jordan, Katie marie, Curt james, Chloe, Olivia Kate and Tyson..
1. Jessie Susannah.





2. My man's name is Joel.





3. Trent Pearce.





4. Joey ';JJ'; Joseph is the only name I can come up with.





5. The obvious Michael Alexander, but his nickname is Mika.





6. Nessa, meaning ';miracle';, Matilda ';strength in battle'; and Vera ';faith';.





7. Caleb Jason and Joanna Charlene.





8. They lived in London, obviously many miles away from our Hong Kong homeland. Their kids' names are Aiden Daniel, Brady James and Madison Haleigh.





9. Trent is majoring in Audiology at Swansea University in Wales. Jessie's kids are named Madeline Isobel and Gabriel Andrew.





Overall, they are:


Jessie, Trent, Joey, Michael, Nessa, Matilda, Vera, Caleb, Joanna, Aiden, Brady, Madison, Madeline and Gabriel.








Fourteen's a lot if you ask me. (:
1. Nadia Grace (Nadia means Hope which is my name)





2. Ten years later, you’re graduating medical school and engaged to the love of your life, Alexander James (Xander).





3. Tyler Paul





4. Andrew Alexis





5. Jacob Kennedy and I nickname him Cobey (instead of Jake)





6. Beattie (Gaelic- One who grants blessings), Kemi (African- Blessing) and Raina (American - Female - Abundant Blessings from Above). There middle names are Hope, Faith and Love





7. Caiden James (James after his father) and Jessica Caitlin.





8. They live in Sydney, there names are Jayden Rhys, Michael Oliver and Emma Georgina.





9. Murdoch Uni to study Veterinary Science. There names are Lilliana Rose and Dylan Taylor.





I have Nadia Grace who had Lilliana Rose and Dylan Taylor. I have Tyler Paul, Andrew Alexis, Jacob Kennedy, Beattie Hope, Kemi Faith, Raina Love, Caiden James, Jessica Caitlin, Jayden Rhys, Michael Oliver and Emma Georgina.





So Nadia with Lilly and Dil. Tye, Drew, Cobey, Beattie, Kems, Rain, Cai, Jessy, Jay, Mikey and Em.
1. My kid: Kayla Marie (My name Kailey)


2. Love of my life: Hugh Johnson


3: Thomas Preston (Tom)


4. Boy named after dad: Blaine Hughes


5. Brandon Christopher (Randy)


6. Triplet girls: Lillian Grace, Susanna Hope, Lola Belle


7: Initiles twins: Charles James. Jessica Christine


8. Sisters kids: Landon Michael, Matthew Alexander, Ashley Marie


9. Grandkids: Bridget Renee and Luke Davis





Kayla, Thomas, Blaine, Randy, Lillian, Susanna, Lola, Charles, Jessica, Landon, Matthew, Ashley, Bridget, and Luke
1. Faina Carys (Faina means ';crown'; like my name, Stephanie, %26amp; Carys means ';love';)





2. James





3. Tyson Patrick





4. Jeffrey Dennis, ';Jeff';





5. Christopher James, ';Topher';





6. Adia Katherine, Thea Simone %26amp; Isadora Eden





7. Calista Jolene %26amp; Jude Cyrus





8. They lived in Ohio (we're in Florida). The kids names are Braden Cruz, Jacob Riley %26amp; Ava Grace.





9. Tyson is going to Johns Hopkins University to study medicine. Faina's daughter's name is Nora Giselle and her son's name is Miles Grant.





All the kids: Faina, Tyson, Jeff, Topher, Adia, Thea, Isadora, Calista, Jude, Braden, Jacob, Ava, Nora %26amp; Miles.
1. Kayla Rose ( mine Kaylee Rose )


2. Jordan Alexander Clayton


3. Tyler Payton


4. James Connor


5. Brenden Michael ( Dewie )


6. Grace Marie,Hope Lane,and Faith Daria


7. Carolyn Janene and Joshua Carter


8. Arkansas, Jacob Dane, Brian Lukas, and Alyssa Kate


9. Chicago, Science, Brooklan Mae, and Braden Jae





So all the names I put are:





Kayla Rose


Jordan Alexander


Tyler Payton


James Connor


Brenden Michael


Grace Marie


Hope Lane


Faith Daria


Carolyn Janene


Joshua Carter


Jacob Dane


Brian Lukas


Alyssa Kate


Brooklan Mae


Braden Jae


Kaylee Rose(Me)
1. Diana Renesmee


2. Aiden Mason


3. Tristan Parker


4. Edward Aiden


5. Lucas Cameron, we call him Lucky


6. Gwenyth Kylie, Isadora Piper, Rain Katherine


7. Calista Jaymes and Joshua Christopher


8. Washington. Noah Oliver, Jacob Anthony, Ava Vanessa


9. Columbia...Medicine. Olivia Paige and Cooper Daniel


Tristan, Eddie, Lucky, Gwen, Isa, Rain, Callie, Noah, Jake, Ava. First born...Dee. Grandbabies...Livie and Coop
Daughter given up for Adoption: Lauren Elizabeth





Husband: Dino Reagan





Oldest Son: Tristan Patrick





Second Son: Reagan Marc





Third Son: Tyler Jonathon (Teigh)





Triplets: Elaina Grace, Heaven Blessing, Hope Sophia.





Twins: Cassie Jacelyn %26amp; Jackson Christopher.





Lived in Jacksonville TN.





Sisters Kids are: Parker Max, Luke Carter, %26amp; Marlee Kayden.








University of Florida to study engineering.





Lauren's Children are: Ellie Sage %26amp; Logan Caleb
1. Jenna Elizabeth





2. Andrew Michael





3. Thomas Peter





4. Liam Henry





5. Elijah James ';Eli';





6. Grace Elaine, Faith Celia, and Hope Danielle





7. Caleb Joshua and Juliet Claire





8. London


Aiden Jonathan, 8


Riley Brandon, 6


Madison Paige, 5





9. Arkansas University, aquaculture


Lucia Jean, 2


Noah Alexander, 6 months





Jenna, Thomas, Liam, Elijah, Grace, Faith, Hope, Caleb, Juliet, Aiden, Riley, Madison, and little Lucia %26amp; Noah :)
1. Tahnie Julia





2. Gabriel-Gabe





3. Thomas Peter-Tommy





4. Charlie Edd-Charlie





5. James Rocko-Rocko





6. Grace Cassidy, Adorabelle Nicole and Timarah Cassandra-Grace, Belle and Tim





7. Charter Jackson and Jade Cora-Char and Jade





8. Paris


Son-Sydney-Syd


Son-Mason-Mase


Daughter-Bailey-Bailey





9. Oxford University to study Literature


Daughter-Dominique-Dom


Son-Taylor-Tay





Me (Tahna) and my husband Gabe had Tommy, Charlie, Rocko, Grace, Belle, Tim, Char and Jade. Gabes sister-in-laws children Syd, Mase and Bailey and then my first daughter Tahnies kids Dom and Tay.
1) Kiasia Lynne: My name is Kia and the adoptive parents names are Mary Lynne and Mark.





2) Engaged to Grant Emerson. His dad's name is Grant Michael Emerson II, and my father's name is James Leonard Smith.


3) Talon Preston


4) Grant Michael Emerson III


5. Louis Athen (nickname Lou-ee)


6. Ella Louise, Nicollette Lee, and Mackenna Adelle


7. Carter James, and Jaylee Cristina


8. San Diego (we live in Chicago): Luke Jacob, Bennett Keith, and Kelly Anne


9. Stanford Univ (CA).....Kiasia married Robert Jameson: Marianna Kay %26amp; Logan Robert





My Kids


Talon, Junior, Louee, Ella, Nikki, Mack, Carter, Jaylee, Luke, Benny, and Kelly.....AND Kiasia...





My grandkids: Anna %26amp; Logan
1. Madelyn Rose


2. William Thomas


3. Tyler Paul


4. Jackson Bryce


5. Jonathan Matthew ';Nathan';


6. Taylor Grace, Morgan Faith, and Reilly Hope


7. Carter James and Jane Claire


8. California, Aiden Lee, Ethan John, and Isabella Jade


9. Cornell, law, Ella Margaret and Samuel Thomas





Maddie (who has Ella and Sam), Tyler, Jackson, Nathan, Taylor, Morgan, Reilly, Carter, Jane Claire, Aiden, Ethan, and Isabella
1. Brinleigh Ann Marie


2. Wyatt Lee James


3. Treven Peter James


4. Lee Parker James


5. Caden Wyatt James ''Cade';


6. Aubriella Seraphina James,Tatianna Noelle James, Ava Harlow James


7. Cameron Jayden James and Jaylinn Carmen James


8. Los Angels, CA - We live in NY.


Ryan Micheal Samson


Dylan William Samson


Emma Leigh Ann Samson


9. Harvard, Law. Annalese Marie and Jameson Carter.





I have:


Brinleigh Ann Marie


-Annalese Marie


-Jameson Carter


Treven Peter


Lee Parker


Caden Wyatt


Aubriella Seraphina


Tatianna Noelle


Ava Harlow


Cameron Jayden


Jaylinn Carmen


Ryan Micheal


Dylan William


Emma Leigh Ann





very nice! please make more!

What do you do when your a fool in-love?

my ex husband and i have known each other for thirty years.he is 38 and so am i we have been on again and off again for 18yrs.as of now were off.he is married now but he left her for me 2yrs ago.and in that time i was diagnosed with breast cancer.while i was in chemo he was there but our finance was horrible so we lost our place.we moved seperatly with our familys and 2months ago he went back to his wife right when she was divorcing him and told my in-laws and myself that he could not bear to live with family anymore.but when i see him hes all over me.im still in radiation and i have had my surgery.so i feal just fine but im allways so depressed and sad about him.i will be in my new place soon.and i know that he will try to come back.but im scared if i take him back what if we go broke again what will he do.how do you fall out of love?What do you do when your a fool in-love?
Oh for pete's sake you have gone through enough. did you also know that women dealing with infidelity and such emotional stress in a marriage are more apt to getting diagnosed with breast cancer? Stress causes many cancers as a matter of fact. You don't need this man back in your life. You need to live for YOURSELF for once--and see how much healing from the inside and out will take place once you do. Let him go with his wife and don't take him back. I don't care if your mother's were in the same hospital giving birth at the same time and you knew each other for your whole 38 years of life. Sometimes you have to throw out the past and step boldly into the future. Don't cling to what makes you comfortable or safe. Sometimes finding true love is a risk that you have to take.What do you do when your a fool in-love?
I really wish you well through all of this. You need as much support as you can get.

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You can't tell your heart what to do, it does what it wants. That is why you should ask the advice of others and follow it.





You fall out of love by finding another one to love. I suggest you open your heart to that possiblity and move on. Good luck to you.
some days i feel like i am a fool in love, when i am with her i love this woman with all my heart,





but back to you,





??????
he is wishy washy, and isnt a real man to back his woman, you should not let him back into your life, be who you are without him, you have been through this tough time alone, and he just sits on the fence waiting till you can screw him again,





not a pleasant place to be, it is a hard thing but tell him you are through,





good luck with your cancer,
sometimes you continue loving but circumstances can ruin things....i wouldnt take him back...
Look inside your soul for the answer, what is the worst thing that could be done is to be negative. Give your heart to him and dont worry about going broke
Enjoy the good times.

What is a good book about marriage?

I am looking for a book about marriages. Specifcally something like how to rekindle the flame, how to fall back in love, how to save your marriage, that sort of thing. I want a book that doesn't preach, doesn't condem certian things, and one that is a good read. I'm also a stay at home mom, so maybe something to do with how to focus on your husband and children, not just your kids. I really love my husband and want things to work, but if we keep going the way we are now we will be divorced in a few years. Thanks in advance!What is a good book about marriage?
the book we read during counsoling was called








fit to be tied ..








dont remember the author tho





good bookWhat is a good book about marriage?
You don't need a book. A man's needs are simple and easy to fill.





All you need to do is make sure that when he gets home from work, there is a hot meal on a plate waiting for him, his socks are folded, his children are alive, and allow him a little time to come home from work and decompress before you start telling him everything you did that day. Then, when he wants sex, you give it up.





If you do that, you'll have the greatest marriage ever. Easy.
Bartenders guide. Good luck !
Hey, if you find one please let me know!!!!!!


I am with you 100% i know what you are saying!


e-mail me @ dorothymaeplemons@yahoo.com
get the book Men are from Mars and Women are frm Venus very good book
The proper care and feeding of good marriages.





There is also the proper care and feeding of good husbands.





Basically the book re-interates what you said you'd like to happen. Women tend to lose focus on their husbands once the children come.
';The Five Love Languages'; is a great book that I think would help most married couples. It doesn't fall into the category of ';rekindling the flame'; as you said but it does help couples better understand what they need to feel loved. The book is about the idea that each person needs love in different ways - or in different languages. For instance, men usually show love by providing for their family. They think bringing home a paycheck or buying you something expensive is the correct way to show love. If you're the kind of woman who needs love shown in that way, then that's great. But if you're like most women, you need to have your husband bring you flowers for no reason, listen to you, be there for you...etc. This is an entirely different love language. It basically says it's important for your partner to learn how to speak your love language.
the proper care and feeding of husbands by laura schlessinger.


every modern woman should get a copy of it when we get the free tampons at secondary school,its that vital to making a perfect marriage.


if more people read it then there would be no need for divorce.(unless your mans an abusive ***.)